Men would prefer if feminist activism was the way women are already socialized to be: passive, placating, male appeasing, self-blaming and overall, submissive.
"you should be nicer!" is basically saying "you should do your activism in a way that i can ignore more easily!"
A fun thing to do when people accuse you of “thinking people should just have stuff HANDED TO THEM! ! !” Is to just cold be like yes. I absolutely do believe that. I think every single person should have their needs met unconditionally without ever having to prove that they “deserve” it based on arbitrary criteria of usefulness. You got me. Busted.
Easter: Celebrating the death of a false God whilst dining on the flesh of innocent beings and snacking on bovine secretions shaped like chicken periods to further the social disconnection between animals and food.